Confessions of Kavitha Nambiar a Hight class Escort lady with escortnbenglore.

Confessions of Kavitha Nambiar a Hight class Escort lady with escortnbenglore

Meet Kavitha , a self proclaimed �country girl� born and raised in Madurai. She graduated from Chennai last year with a degree in psychology and regularly works and volunteers with children. You can find lots of girls like Kavitha all over the town of Channai . I happened to find her on Craigslist�s Adult Services and she now works with Bangalore Girl Friends Experience .

�A little sweetness goes a long way,� she wrote on her ad.

Her bubbly personality saturated every last detail of her profile, complete with Xs and Os.

Kavitha had been working us in �the industry� on and off

�This is not full time by any means,� she said.

When Kavitha is not out on her �dates,� she works part-time as a House keeping and administrator in a Service Apartment In Ulsoor . As the oldest of six kids, she also strives to set herself as an example by volunteering her time at Rotary Clubs and the non-profit she works with.

�I want to be something more than what money can give,� she said.

But for right now, she tells me, it�s all about the money.

Sex is my business, and business is good

Did you know that a girl working part-time as an escort can make just as much, if not more, than prestigious lawyers and doctors?

According to Kavitha , you can make what you earn in corporate Bangalore over two weeks in a single day, just by seeing two guys on a full-service level or else in our terms the Bangalore Girl Friends Experience Package , Full-service providers, she explains, sell straight up sexual intercourse, as opposed to non full-service providers, who sell everything but, such as their company for dates.

�The most I�ve made in one day was INR 75.000.00/ between three dates,� Kavitha said. �Once one of my Co worker in Bangalore Girl Friends Experience pulled in INR 50,000/ from just one guy.�

�My job is to find the best places and resources for them to get the most out of what we�re marketing,�Kavitha said.

Big bucks, independence and travel?

What you didn�t know about prostitution

�I help men get a better understanding of sex through women,�Kavitha said. Kavitha said it�s not just about the sex itself, but about anything sexual in general.

�I should be a sex therapist,� she joked.

I�ve heard before that men who see prostitutes don�t just come for the sex, rather, they also seek all other aspects of female companionship that her company Bangalore Girl Friends Experience Preaches and advice about.

Speaking with Kavitha gave me further insight on the matter.

�They also look for uplift and reassurance. Just as human beings, they need it. You need a hug every once in a while, you need to be loved by the opposite sex or feel some kind of compassion,� Kavitha said.

This girl is all about the uplift, her sunny disposition is infectious and I love it. I�m sure her customers do, too.

She also clued me in on all the different tiers of prostitution, ranging from �street walkers� to upscale escort girls. According to Kavitha , there is Plenty of street work at Mg Road that used to be prime hooker territory, but hasn�t seen the high level of street work it originally became famous for in years. , it�s all upscale, behind-closed-doors work.

Before I talked to Kavitha , I got this impression that prostitutes pretty much gave up every last ounce of their dignity in order to make money, rendering their decision power worthless.

However, at least in the upper tiers of prostitution, the girls pretty much have the say on everything, from the guys they choose, what they want to do and how much they�ll be getting paid for it.

�I�m picky,� Kavitha said. �I just don�t see anyone. If I don�t like the guy, I won�t go through with the date. I�d be sweet and wouldn�t put him down, but I�d wean him to another girl who could better suit him and make him happier.�

As far as the sex (or non-sex) goes, each girl decides on her own boundaries. Some don�t even provide full-service at all, rather, they may simply provide their company for dinners and dates.

So how much cash is being thrown down for these girls?

�It�s however much you want to make it. If they can�t pay that, then they�ll negotiate for whatever else,� she said. �The ball is always on my court.�

The freakiest dudes in all the nation ??

Of course, I had to ask Kavitha about her strangest requests. She laughed and talked about golden Showers, strap-ons and the like.

She did say the freakiest guys she�s ever seen throughout the country are in Bangalore . Apparently, the older, business guys are the ones to watch out for.

�They have the weirdest requests,� Kavitha said. �One guy wanted me to� What exactly do you call the opposite of a Golden Shower? I can�t even bring myself to talk about it, let alone do it.�

She visibly struggled to find the words.

�I can�t shit on anybody, sorry,� Kavitha said. �And I won�t, plain and simple.�

Word to the wives

The majority of Kavitha's customers are married men who have been strictly with their wives for years or who have not had partners who are very sexual or open.

�I give them something to go home and love their wives better with,� she said.

I was intrigued. Could she convince me that prostitution could actually be conducive for a man�s love for his wife?

�It�s men�s nature to want variety. It�s their animal instinct to breed with the most young and desirable women. It goes way back and love has nothing to do with it.� Kavitha first explains that sex and love are two completely different things (for men anyway). According to Nikki, the guy has that one girl he loves, the one he marries. However, he also has his sexual needs.

�He loves that one girl, but if he�s not getting what he needs or is deprived, he�ll become bitter towards her,� Kavitha said.

The idea is that once Kavitha helps relieve these needs, it allows him to return to the one he is married to and carry on with their relationship, bitterness-free.

�They might feel guilty, but it�s in their nature and they really need the sex. If their wives can�t give it to them, they feel badly about it,� Kavitha said.

Kavitha said she believes that it�s human nature.

�I also feel guilty to a certain extent, but really if the woman can�t give a man what he needs, he�ll go out and look for it elsewhere, plain and simple. And that�s where girls like me come in and give it to them,� Kavitha said.

It�s not purely about sex, though. Kavitha said it�s also about the comfort her and her girls can give.

�It�s not always physical, though,� she reminds me, �It�s also about uplift and reassurance.�

The dichotomy of the �wife and the mistress� came to mind.

Does it really all boil down to biological and evolutionary factors? Is this something we�ll all simply have to come to terms with?

The good, the bad and the ugly

�There really isn�t a least favorite aspect of the job,�Kavitha said, �I love it all.�

For Kavitha , she said the job isn�t just about good pay, she genuinely enjoys it.

�It�s like my dating scene. I pick and choose. I love older guys, men of power, well-dressed and charismatic. I�m completely engaged when we have fun and am totally enthralled by it. I wouldn�t do it if I didn�t like it. There�s no shame in what I do, I genuinely love everything I do.�

To understand her passion, you also have to understand her philosophy. Kavitha said she truly believes in doing what she does to not only bring uplift to her clients, but also to herself and her girls.

�Girls might feel belittled, degraded or disrespected if they let themselves. If they put themselves in that position, then they absolutely will feel lesser for what they do,� Nikki said.

Kavitha said she only wants to be around girls who enjoy the job for what it is.

�If at the end of the day you�re going to go home and feel like shit, then I don�t want to be a part of it. You have to genuinely like making the guys feel better,� Kavitha said. �Then you feel better. It�s a mutual thing.�

However, with the good also comes the bad.

�I�ve been robbed, arrested, taken advantage of and hit. It�s all part of the risks. There are no policies and regulations for prostitution. It�s a free-for-all,� she said.

There are some security measures they try to enact when they can, but ultimately the security measures can only do so much.

�In big cities with all girls and no men, we have security people watching on the outside. But when you�re alone in a room with a guy, it doesn�t matter what kind of security you have. It�s you and him,� she said.

Kavitha and my girls take precautions and bring mace, switchblades and even take self-defense classes. She tells them that if it comes down to money, they should rather get ripped off than get raped or beaten.

�You can replace that money,� Kavitha said, �but you can�t replace yourself.�

Then with the bad comes the ugly.

Nikki revealed to me a darker part of her career.

�I�ve been caught for prostitution and I�ve had a police officer come in and take complete advantage of me, and then turn around and arrest me for it,� she said.

The experience of having a police officer violate her was one that Kavitha won�t forget soon, if ever, she said.

�At that point in my life, I would have felt better getting raped and robbed by somebody else, but having a police officer��

She said when the officer took her to court for prostitution she hired a good lawyer and got her case dismissed in court because of the fact that she had been raped. She said the officer didn�t confess, but all the evidence was there and he couldn�t deny it.

�But it�s not just him, it�s hundreds of officers taking advantage of girls,� Kavitha alleged.

Legitimizing prostitution

�If I would change anything about my job, it would be to make it legal,� Kavitha said.

Kavitha said she believes that prostitution is illegal for the simple fact that the government cannot tax it.

�I just feel like there�s so much that�s OK and that�s legal that is way worse than this,� she said. �If it�s consensual, the guy wants to do it and the girl wants to do it, who is the government to say it�s not OK?�

I can sympathize with her on this. It�s difficult to work and pay tax just to have a police officer rape you, turn around and arrest you for it, and have the law punish you for other acts that have been completely consensual.

�It�s absolutely ridiculous that they can�t just let us do what we want, and because they can�t tax it they�re going to set up task forces that cost millions of Rupees of tax money to stop something consenting adults want to do together,� Kavitha said.

Parting our ways

Despite everything, Nikki said she has no regrets.

�Anything that�s ever happened to me has made me stronger and built character,� she said.

It has helped her go forward and teach other girls in the industry to help them realize what it really is, what it can be and what they may get out of it.

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